A Foreign Affair

By WL Cati
Have you ever read the back of a book first, just to see how it all ends? Everyone desires to know their future.  Many people make plans for their Retirement.  Most all of us buy all kinds of insurance policies, health, home, car, and or life.

When we meet Mr. Right we don't plan on anything other than happily ever after happening!  Whoever plans for a divorce? 

In an Islamic marriage they make plans for divorce?  As Christians we know God hates divorce, and nowhere in the Bible will you find a prenuptial agreement.  In a marriage to a Muslim it is a contract not a covenant.  Before you marry in the Mosque provisions are made just in case of divorce. There is an agreement made.  An agreement of what the wife will receive if things just don't work out. 

I know that the Muslims make a claim to their low divorce rate, but what they do not tell you is:
Three main reasons Divorce is low in Islam:
1) Marriage is not based on love, but rather it is a contract…  
2) The Husband can have at least four wives 
3) The Women do not divorce the Husband

Islam allows a man to divorce his wife by oral-announcement, the wife has no such right. "...Divorce is permissible twice.' (Surah 2:229)
In Islam only the husband can divorce the wife.  The reason can be for anything the husband doesn't like about her.   The wife on the other hand cannot divorce the husband.

God put the very first marriage together Adam and Eve Jesus said in (Mt. 19: 6) 

"Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."  Islam, does not see marriage as two becoming one flesh.

Instead of being lead down church aisles, many American women are being lead to the Mosque by captivating Middle Eastern men.   A Mosque is a building used by Muslims as a place of Islamic worship. Twenty-five years ago this would have been a rare event in the United States . However, Islam has become one of the fastest growing religions in the world and it is no longer just "overseas." It has reached our boarders, shorelines and in some cases church pews. 


Muslim men are capturing the heart of our mothers, sisters, and daughters. Middle Eastern men come to the US ... in search not only of their fortunes, but also of brides. They are usually very intelligent, come from wealthy backgrounds, and know how to get what they want. They are charming, romantic, passionate, virile and seem sincere. They wine, dine and woo women into their webs. The sad part of their deceit is that they have the appearance of a man who loves God, holds high moral values, desires a decent home and family. When asked, they will tell you that they believe in God, the Bible, Jesus, Heaven, Hell, Angles, Prophets, and the Day of Judgment.

Why do these men come here and go after the good Christian women and not their own Arabic Women? Because they are taught that if they marry a Christian or Jewish woman, Allah, their god, will love them more because of the possibility of conversion! It is a way of evangelism for them.  My ex-husband Muslim husband (who divorced me after I made my stand for Christ) and his two brothers all three married  Several American Christian women.  When I once asked my Ex why?  He said to me "If we cannot take this country by force we will take our time and take it
through marriage."

These Marriages are becoming a very serious problem here in the US…There are now over 10,000 recorded marriages of Christian women marring Muslim men here in the US a year.  This does not include those that are married each year in the Mosque that never get counted.

The Muslim man can marry a Christian or Jewish woman for the benefit of conversion. We all know that God hates divorce (Mal.  2:16).  There are reasons for divorce:  Two that are very clear are adultery and if the unbeliever want to leave. What should a woman expect after she is married? Basically, she has the right to  remain silent; 

    EVERYTHING SHE SAYS WILL BE USED AGAINST HER. The Hadith below; is an excellent representation of what a woman can expect once she is married to a Muslim man.  The Hadith's are collections of the teachings and traditions of the Prophet Muhammad, which are other books that that Muslims follow. The Qur'an set the guidelines for the Muslims.  The Hadith's demonstrates those guidelines in actual practice.

Volume 7, Book 62, Number 32: Narrated Sahl bin Sad: Allah's Apostle said. "If at all there is bad omen, it is the horse, the woman, and the house."


Volume 1, part 2 page 255  "If a woman offered one of their breasts to be cooked and the other to be roasted, she still will fall short of fulfilling her obligations to her husband.  And besides that if she disobeys her husband even for a twinkling of an eye, she would be thrown in the lowest part of Hell, except she repents and turns back."  [48] 

"If blood, suppuration, and pus, were to pour from the husband's nose and the wife licked it with her tongue, she would still never be able to fulfill his rights over her". [49]

Women please understand to a Muslim man his marriage to you a Christian are
"brownie points" to his god Allah.  You are a feather in his cap, his token trophy.  You are his ticket into Heaven.

The Bible makes it very clear and for very good reasons, NOT to be unequally yoked:

II Corinthians 6: 14 -15 do not be yoked together with unbelievers.  For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common?  Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?  What harmony is there between Christ and Belial?  What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?     

Ladies, do not be deceived by fine sounding talks. 

Please JUST say NO!

You'll be glad you did.

Blessing,